About me

Hi! I’m Thomas J Wilman, but you can call me Tom. We’re all friends here.

I’m a singer and multi-instrumentalist with decades of experience playing to audiences of all sizes and ages, with a large number of wedding and civil partnership gigs under my belt. (Check out what a few of my wonderful couples had to say here.)

I have a real passion for music and know from my own wedding just how important a part of the big day it can be for some couples. So I’m here for you - the people out there who want their wedding to be filled with the music they truly love from start to finish, and I’ll be fully committed to making that happen.

I live in Brighton with my wife and two children and, as well as those three cool guys, I also love The Magnetic Fields, Bluey, End of the Road Festival, surprise aisle songs, Big Thief / Adrianne Lenker, fresh new strings on a guitar, being introduced to my new favourite novel, and can’t get enough of the film ‘Four Weddings and a Funeral’ (though even I can’t fully explain it).

“Tom was so helpful in the preparation for the day, and we were able to send him a list of songs we loved; he clearly worked so hard to make our day so special. Tom exudes a calm and relaxed vibe and this makes him a pleasure to deal with.”

— Nick & Mary

Location

Based in Brighton, East Sussex, but available to play at events across the South-East - Sussex, Surrey, Hampshire, London, Kent, Berkshire and Buckinghamshire - and indeed throughout the UK (and beyond!)

Travel rates will apply, so please get in touch with your venue details to enquire about any additional cost.

 

“If you ever need a stranger
To sing at your wedding
A last minute choice
Then I am your man

I know every song, you name it
By Bacharach and David
Every stupid love song
that’s ever touched your heart
Every power ballad
that’s ever climbed the chart…”

Jens Lekman

Like what you hear?

Whether you want to make an enquiry, book me without delay or just want to say hello, I’d love to hear from you…